
House to Home, Woman & Home,
Ideal Home, Livingetc, Homes and Gardens, Good Housekeeping, Nuts. Ok, not
Nuts. But all the rest are magazines currently on sale in the UK published to help us turn the
houses we live in into the perfect home of our dreams. And the homes featured
in their pages are perfect in every way. All the colours match – from soft
furnishings to wall paper. All the fires are real. All the bedrooms are tidy.
And above all there’s always the smell of freshly baked bread in the kitchen.
Isn’t this the perfection you have
in mind for your home? Well maybe it is, maybe it isn’t. The older I get, the
less I care about the house being clean and tidy at all times. But the truth is
we all have some sense of a perfect home deep within us somewhere – and it
seems that these lifestyle mags are able to tap into that longing in our soul.
It’s possible that for some the home of their childhood was perfect in every
way and they have no need to try and create that perfection today but for most,
to some degree or other, imperfection ruled and the worse the situation the
more the longing for perfection now.
And so people spend time, effort and
a lot of cash trying to create what they never had – a safe, loving, accepted-as-you-are
idyll. It’s never achieved of course because the change needed is not in the
house but in the heart. But in tapping into a cry in the land and in selling
the dream the publishers manage to sell a lot of magazines.
What could the church do to tap into
the same longing?